Today is 2010 and Tomorrow is 2011

Lessons in Life

 

•  Life isn't fair, but it's still good.

•  When in doubt, just take the next small step.

•  Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.

•  Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.

•  You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

• Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.

•  It's okay to get angry with God. He can take it.

• When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.

•  Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.

•  It's okay to let your children see you cry.

•  Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.

•  If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.

•  Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.

•  Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.

•  You can get through anything if you stay put in today.

•  A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.

•  It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.

•  When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.

•   Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.

•  Over-prepare, then go with the flow.

•  Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.

•  The most important sex organ is the brain.

•   No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

•   Frame every so-called disaster with these words: "In five  years, will this matter?"

•   Always choose life.

•   Forgive everyone everything.

•   What other people think of you is none of your business.

•   Time heals almost everything. Give time time.

•   However good or bad a situation is, it will change.

• Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

•  Believe in miracles.

•  God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.

• Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.

•  Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.

• Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.

• Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.

•   Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.

•   If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.

•  Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.

•  Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

•  All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.

•   Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

•   The best is yet to come.

•   No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

•   Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.

•   If you don't ask, you don't get.

•   Yield.

•   Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.

• "A REAL FRIEND IS ONE WHO WALKS IN WHEN....THE REST OF THE WORLD WALKS OUT"

-HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE- 

Give thanks for what you are now, and keep fighting for what you want to be tomorrow.

 

Daddy and a daughter

 Petikan ini sy copy and paste dr blog org lain...yang telah men-translate dr Bahasa Inggeris ke Bahasa Indonesia... i love this article... lets sharing..^_____________^




Biasanya anak-anak yg jauh dari orang tuanya merasa kangeen sekali dgn mamanya.

Lalu bagimana dgn papa?

Mungkin mama lebih sering menanyakan keadaan anaknya setiap hari .tp taukah kamu jika papamu yg mengingatkannya utk menelfonmu?

Mgkn mama yg lebih sering mengajakmu bercerita,tp taukah kamu sepulangnya ia bekerja dgn wajah lelah ia selalu menanyakan kabarmu dari mama mu?

waktu kecil..

Papa mengajari putri kecilnya bermain sepeda. Setelah dia mengganggap kamu bisa ia melepaskan roda bantu di sepedamu, Saat itu mama menutup mata karena takut anaknya terjatuh lalu terluka.tp ayah dgn yakin menatapmu mengayuh sepeda dgn pelan karena dia tahu putri kecilnya pasti bisa.

Saat kamu menangis meronta meminta boneka yg baru,mama menatapmu iba,tetapi ayah mengatakan dgn tegas "kita beli nanti,tapi tidak sekarang" karena ia tidak ingin kamu menjadi manja dgn semua tuntutan yg selalu di penuhi.

ketika kamu remaja

kamu mulai menuntut utk keluar malam. Lalu papa mulai bersikap lebih tegas ketika mengatakan "tidak".
itu utk menjagamu karena kamu adalah sesuatu yg berharga.
Lalu kamu masuk ke kamar membanting pintu.
Tp yg dtg mengetok pintu dan membujuk mu adalah mama.
Taukah kamu saat itu dia memejamkan matanya dan menahan diri,karena Dia sangat ingin mengikuti keinginanmu. Tp lagi2 dia harus menjagamu.

dan saat dia melonggarkan sedikit peraturan, kamu melanggar jam malamnya. Ia duduk di ruang tamu menunggu mu pulang dgn sangat2 khawatir. Wajah khawatir itu mengeras ketika melihat putri kecilnya pulang terlalu larut. Dia marah. Karena hal yg di takutinya akhirnya datang "putri kecilnya sudah tidak ada lg"

saat papa sedikit memaksamu utk menjd seorang dokter. Ketahuilah bahwa ia hanya memikirkan masa depanmu nanti. Tp toh dia tetap tersenyum saat pilihanmu adalah menjd seorang penulis.

sampai saat papa harus melepasmu di bandara. Bahkan badannya terlalu kaku utk memelukmu. Ia hanya tersenyum sambil memberi nasehat ini-itu. Dia ingin menangis seperti mama yg menangis dan memelukmu erat. Tp dia hanya menghapus sedikit air mata di sudut matanya dan menepuk pundakmu berkata "jaga diri baik2". Agar kamu kuat utk pergi.

saat kamu butuh uang untuk membiayai uang semester dan kehidupanmu, orang pertama yg mengerutkan kening adalah Papa. Berusaha mencari jalan agar anaknya bisa merasa sama dgn yg lain.

ketika permintaanmu bukan lg sekedar meminta boneka baru, dan ia tau ia tidak bisa memberikan. Dia sangat ingin mengatakan "iya nak,nanti kita beli" dan saat kata2 yg keluar adalah "tidak bisa" dari bibirnya. Tahukah kamu Ia merasa gagal membuat anaknya tersenyum.

saat kamu sakit dan tidak berada di dekatnya. Papa terlalu khawatir sampai kadang sedikit membentak berkata "sudah di blg jgn minum air dingin!".berbeda dgn mama yg memperhatikanmu dgn lembut.
ketahuilah saat itu ia benar2 khawatir dgn keadaanmu.

dan di saatnya nanti kamu wisuda sebagai seorang sarjana. Papa adalah org pertama yg berdiri dan memberi tepuk tangan utk mu. Dia yg tersenyum bangga dan puas melihat "putri kecilnya yg tidak manja berhasil tumbuh dewasa, dan telah menjadi seseorang"

sampai saat seorang teman hidupmu datang dan meminta izin mengambilmu darinya. Papa akan sangat berhati2 memberikan izin.karena ia tau laki2 itu yg nanti akan menggantikannya.

dan saat Papa melihat mu duduk di panggung pernikahan bersama seseorang yg di anggapnya pantas menggantikannya. Papa pergi kebelakang panggung,dan menangis "tugasku telah selesai dgn baik.putri kecilku yg lucu telah menjadi wanita yg cantik"

Papa hanya bisa menunggu kedatangan mu dan cucu2nya sesekali utk menjenguknya. Dgn rambut yg telah memutih dan badan yg tak lagi kuat utk menjagamu dari bahaya.

papa adalah sosok yg harus selalu terlihat kuat bahkan ketika dia tidak kuat utk tdk menangis. Harus terlihat tegas bahkan saat dia ingin memanjakanmu. papa jg orang pertama yg selalu yakin bahwa "kamu bisa" dalam hal apapun.

tersenyum dan bersyukurlah ketika kamu bisa merasakan kasih syg seorang papa hingga tugasnya selesai.kmu adalah salah satu org yg beruntung. Karna papa adalah sosok superhero yg hebat.

-anonymous-

Jelapang Kecil,Jelapang Padi,Jelapang Kawan,itu lah Jelapang Padi..haha

Saya gembira...alhamdulillah... Saya jumpe kwn lame mse kat Jitra dulu.. hari2 kami dok gadoh...ade ja tak kena...dah ler duduk sebelah dlm kelas..dr darjah 4 dan darjah 5..darjah 6 aku pindah tg.mlm.. haha.. bukan mse skolah pagi je..skola agama pun sama... kayuh basikal..jalan kaki..dgn hujan lg.. pastu..kalo balik skolah..for sure lalu umah die dulu..bru umah aku..sebelah taman ja.. tp..mse tu..die duk ayer hitam.. yang kt jitra tu..umah tok wan dia kowt..lupa da.. haha.. ingt lagi...ikhwan ske eksyen aku dgn kayuh basikal lepas tgn..haha..sll turun bukit dr skola..perghh..curam beb!..dah ler turun bukit tu ..dpn tu sawah padi...tak kwl handle ly goal masuk sawah..haha..so far, takde sape yg goal..tp aku pasti...itulah *kenangan manis Jelapang Padi*

Friends

Friends are like walls..

 

sometimes u lean on them & sometimes its just enough to know that they are there (" ,)

The Hard Part

Silence........

      Emptiness..........

   and Confusion

.

La Tahzan..innalla la maana..aminnn^^

One thousand years

My sorrow... I could not awaken

A wondering mind looked to the sky,

Waiting for undying love.

Words to Live

Don’t walk in front of me…

I may not follow,
Don’t walk behind me…

I may not lead,
Just walk beside me…

and be my friend.

Best friends are sisters that aren’t related.

       but ...Friendship is not the song that everyone can sing...

The raindrops goes on

 

starting a fresh by each time,
somewhere new...^^

No matter what I do,
No matter what the time,
I still think of you...

To hear your voice,
To feel your touch,
I never would have thought,
I’d miss you this much.

I do remember...the day before you when away...you'd said..

"life at that very moment, and life goes on …"

The Wait and The Hope

 

As silence fills my loneliness

sitting at home,
everything is fine,
as the days pass by...

one by one,
some long, some slow...

as I close my eyes and see,
you standing before me...

I open up my eyes to find,
that you are nowhere around...

I wrote sweet letters and songs.
You were on my mind all day , Mama.

-Al Fatihah-

p/s:Dedicated to my loving mother and all her million and one smiles.

Enough

Enough happiness... to make you sweet,
Enough trials... to make you strong,
Enough sorrow ..to keep you human,

Enough hope... to make you happy..

Weeeeeeeeeeeeee~

The Window

                                    What do you see,

when you look outside a  window...What do you see.....